I watched a beautiful yet horrifying video recently about how conventional tomatoes are picked green then forced to ripen in a gas chamber before going to market. Hence their perfectly even red coloration. I know, right?
Following an odd little breadcrumb thought trail, I started thinking about how those of us called to the spotlight (having a life purpose of “Creative Expression in the Spotlight” or an Apollo Star gift marking indicating “Fame & Fortune in the Arts”), are no strangers to the land of the false tomatoes.
In hand analysis terminology, a “tomato fear” is used to describe the fear of having rotten tomatoes thrown at you while you are performing your art.
(Your art = that Thing you do, e.g. write, speak, act, dance, sing, paint, etc., for your audience.)
The thing is, your tomato fears don’t fool me.
Are they fooling you?
Here’s what I know.
Fear is fear, nothing else.
Our silly and oh-so-sweet-and-well-meaning, reptilian-brain-driven inner critic voices would like us to believe, “No, really, I’m serious this time, you could really die from this, you better pay attention,” but we know better.
Fear is just that thing that stands in the way of our big dreams.
But we — and yes, I do mean we — simply cannot allow ourselves to be swayed by that voice of fear.
Steven Pressfield said, “Figure out what scares you the most and do that first.”
See, I know you are terrified to pursue your dream.
I know you think you are just bored and haven’t found what you are passionate about yet.
But I also I know you picture yourself being laughed off the stage or out of the audition.
Or that people will secretly say behind your back about your writing, “She’s not really that good.”
I know this, because your tomato fears don’t fool me.
I know you are petrified.
I am too.
Let’s do it anyway.
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